meri mom mere ko na bahar jane di kyyu ki aisa karti to mai barbad ho jata but then also says i know nothing about duniya dari kyuki mai bahar n gya. also same for girls she wont let me even stand near girls and then she says ........ basically i dont say but makes me sextually frustated . controlled my whole life . she did nt taught me how to cook but then accuses me of how im dependent and dont know how to cook
AI
Your mother appears to have given you contradictory messages:
"Don't go outside." → Later: "You don't know how the world works."
"Don't talk to girls." → Later: criticism related to your lack of experience or social confidence.
"I'll do everything for you." → Later: "You're so dependent."
"I never taught you to cook." → Later: "You can't even cook."
This is often called a double bind in psychology: you're criticized both for doing something and for not doing the thing you were prevented from learning. There is no way to "win."
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